Therapy Blog & Mental Health Resources
Finding support can feel easier when you have language for what you are experiencing. Purple Sky Counseling’s therapy blog offers articles written by Utah therapists on topics like anxiety, trauma, ADHD, religious trauma, relationships, parenting, faith transitions, and more. The goal is to provide thoughtful, practical information—not quick fixes or one-size-fits-all advice.
These resources are not a replacement for therapy. They are one way to learn, feel less alone, and get a better sense of how Purple Sky thinks about care, trauma, healing, and mental health in a Utah context.
The Mid-Summer Slump: Navigating Loneliness and Loss of Routine
While winter depression gets all the headlines, the loss of routine and structure in July triggers a quiet mental health crisis for many: the mid-summer slump. If you're battling a sudden wave of isolation, low motivation, or an ambient sense of loneliness while everyone else appears to be on vacation, you aren't alone. In this compassionate guide, we break down the neurobiology of routine loss, unmask the 'isolation illusion' of social media comparison, and share how working with a licensed clinical mental health counselor can help you rebuild your momentum.
Two New Teen Therapy Groups in Bountiful This Summer
Purple Sky Counseling is running two five-week teen groups in Bountiful this summer. Digital Detox for Teens helps ages 13 to 17 build healthier tech habits, and Stress Management for Teens gives them real tools to handle stress and build resilience. Both start July 16. Here is what to know and how to register.
The “Summer Sandbox”: Managing Sibling Conflict and Sensory Overload
By mid-July, the initial excitement of summer vacation has officially worn off, replaced by non-stop sibling fighting. But before you blame behavioral choices, it's vital to look beneath the surface at sensory overload. In this parent-focused guide, we explore the hidden clash between sensory seekers and sensory avoiders when regular routines disappear. Discover how to utilize play therapy principles from a child therapist in Bountiful, master the art of parent co-regulation, and turn summer friction into a life-long skill of emotional repair.
Safe in the Storm: How to Stop Living in a State of Hypervigilance
Are you constantly scanning your environment, startling at loud noises, or waiting for the other shoe to drop? This state of being is known as hypervigilance, and it means your nervous system's smoke detector is permanently turned up to high volume. In this trauma-informed guide, we explore the neurobiology of the 'perpetual guard' and explain why you cannot simply logic your way out of fear. Discover how EMDR acts as a vital software update for the brain, and learn somatic grounding tools to help your body understand that the storm has passed and it is finally safe to stand down.
High-Functioning Anxiety: The Cost of Being the One Who "Does It All"
On the outside, you look like a total success story—punctual, reliable, and highly driven. But on the inside, your productivity is fueled by an intense inner critic and a relentless fear of failure. Because you don't fit the classic definition of panic, your struggle often goes completely unnoticed. In this guide, we unmask High-Functioning Anxiety and explore why it thrives in Utah's high-achievement culture. Learn to recognize the physical toll of chronic over-performance and find practical steps to decouple your self-worth from your productivity so you can finally learn to rest.
Understanding Religious Trauma Therapy in Utah
Purple Sky Counseling provides specialized therapy for religious trauma and faith transitions across Utah, both in person at our eight offices and online statewide. Our trauma-informed, EMDR-trained clinicians help you process harmful religious experiences, navigate a changing faith, and rebuild a sense of self without judgment, at your own pace. You don't have to have left your faith to experience religious trauma, and you don't have to be sure about what you believe to start healing.
Screen Time vs. Green Time: Navigating Summer Digital Boundaries Without the Warfare
With the freedom of summer comes a familiar seasonal dread for parents: the non-stop battle over technology. When faced with the effortless dopamine loops of smartphones and gaming, the adolescent brain will choose the screen every single time. In this guide, we dive into the neuroscience behind digital addiction and introduce a sustainable 'Replacement Strategy.' Discover the nervous-system-reset power of 'Green Time' along the Wasatch Front, and learn how to use play therapy principles to create healthy digital boundaries without turning your summer into a warfare zone.
The Architecture of Intimacy: Moving Past "Roommate Syndrome" in Your Marriage
It happens gradually. You start as partners, deeply connected, and slowly drift into becoming excellent co-managers of a household—sharing a roof and a schedule, but losing the emotional bond. If your relationship has fallen into 'Roommate Syndrome,' you aren't alone. In this guide, we unpack the psychological architecture of intimacy and look at why busy Utah couples are particularly vulnerable to this quiet drift. Discover the transformative power of 'Emotional Bids,' learn how to update your partner's 'Love Map,' and find practical, therapy-informed tools to rebuild your connection from the ground up.
Coming Home to Your Body: A Guide to Somatic Grounding and Stress Release
Are you living your life 'from the neck up'? In our high-stress, digital world, it’s easy to become disconnected from the very body that sustains us. In this final guide for Mental Health Awareness Month, we explore the transformative power of Somatic Grounding. Discover the science of the Vagus Nerve, learn why your 'gut feelings' and 'tight shoulders' are actually vital messages from your nervous system, and master simple, body-based tools to release stored stress. It's time to stop treating your body like a vehicle and start treating it like a home. Learn how to anchor yourself in the present and find peace from the bottom up.
The Silent Struggle: Breaking the Stigma of Therapy in Utah Communities
In the beautiful communities of Utah, there is an unspoken rule: 'Always appear fine.' But what happens when the weight of perfectionism becomes too much to bear? In this guide for Mental Health Awareness Month, we break the silence on 'The Silent Struggle.' We explore why Utahns often suffer in isolation, reframe therapy as a courageous form of 'Mental Fitness,' and address the cultural stigma that keeps so many from seeking the support they deserve. It's time to trade the mask of perfection for the strength of being real. Discover why asking for help is the bravest thing you'll ever do.
The Power of Connection: Why Your Child’s "Bad Behavior" is a Cry for Help
Why does your child 'act out' just when you need them to cooperate? From explosive tantrums to quiet withdrawal, child behavior is often a mystery to parents. But in the world of Play Therapy, we know a secret: 'Behavior is communication.' In this deep-dive guide, we explore the 'Iceberg of Child Behavior,' the neuroscience of why kids can't 'talk' about their feelings, and the transformative power of Co-Regulation. Discover how to move from frustration to connection and help your child navigate their world with confidence. It's time to stop fighting the behavior and start hearing the heart.
How EMDR Works for Anxiety and Trauma
If logic was enough to fix anxiety, you would have been 'healed' a long time ago. But trauma and chronic stress don't live in the logical brain—they live in the nervous system. In this deep-dive guide for Mental Health Awareness Month, we explore 'The Science of Hope.' Discover how EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) utilizes neuroplasticity to move traumatic memories from 'live' to 'archived.' Learn about the 8-phase protocol, the REM-sleep connection, and how you can literally rewire your brain for peace and resilience. Your past happened, but it doesn't have to keep happening.
Men’s Mental Health: Breaking the Silence
In a culture that often tells men to 'tough it out,' asking for help can feel like a surrender. But what if vulnerability was actually the ultimate sign of strength? For Mental Health Awareness Month, we are breaking the silence on men's mental health. We explore the unique ways anxiety and depression manifest in men, the physical toll of 'stoicism,' and how therapy can become a powerful tool for leadership, legacy, and lasting connection. It’s time to trade the mask of perfection for the strength of presence.
Internalized Resilience: Sustainable Self-Care for Mental Health Awareness Month
Self-care has become a buzzword, but true mental wellness goes much deeper than a weekend getaway. As we head into Mental Health Awareness Month, we’re looking at how to build a sustainable system of resilience from the inside out. From the neuroscience of 'active restoration' to the uncomfortable art of setting boundaries, discover how to care for your mind with the same consistency you care for your home. It’s time to move from temporary escapes to a lifestyle of lasting peace.
Beyond the Backpack: Helping Your Family Survive the End-of-School Rush
The final stretch of the school year often feels more like a marathon than a victory lap. Between academic pressure and the 'calendar crunch,' Utah families are hitting a wall of anticipatory burnout. In this deep-dive guide, we explore the neuroscience of performance anxiety, the 'invisible load' carried by parents during the spring rush, and practical strategies for protecting your family's peace. Learn how to trade the pressure of 'finishing strong' for the power of finishing healthy.
Spring Cleaning for the Soul: Navigating Life Transitions & New Beginnings
As the Utah landscape shifts from winter to spring, we are reminded that change is the only constant. But navigating life’s major transitions—like a career shift, a move, or a change in family dynamics—is rarely as easy as it looks. In this guide to 'Spring Cleaning for the Soul,' we explore the three psychological stages of transition, how to identify the emotional baggage holding you back, and the importance of setting goals based on your values rather than your 'shoulds.' Discover how to navigate the 'Neutral Zone' of change and step into your new beginning with clarity and peace.
The Invisible Load: Addressing Maternal Mental Health and "Mom Rage"
Why does it feel like you're carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders? Between the 'Invisible Load' of household management and the sudden, shameful bursts of 'Mom Rage,' maternal mental health is a silent crisis for many Utah families. In this guide, we de-stigmatize the anger, explain the science of the overstimulated nervous system, and provide practical steps to lightening the mental load. Discover why you aren't a 'bad mom'—you're just an unsupported one—and learn how to find your way back to the woman you were before the 'tabs' never closed.
Beyond the Mat: Practical Mindfulness for Busy Utah Families
Think mindfulness is only for people with hours of free time? Think again. For busy Utah families, mindfulness is the ultimate survival tool for navigating 'big emotions' and high-stress schedules. In this guide, we strip away the mystery of mindfulness and provide practical, science-backed strategies you can use in the car, at the dinner table, or on the trail. From 'Bear Breaths' for kids to the neuroscience of the 'Pause' for adults, learn how to anchor your family in the present moment.